"Then you shouldn't," Mami answered, gently. She hesitated a moment, before she added clarification. "Maintaining our own happiness... it isn't a selfish act. If we are unhappy, we become distracted -- we become weighed down by that feeling. We have to try, as much as we can, to make sure that we can keep going on. A marriage that you don't believe in will hold you back from what you could become."